And so what do you do when you find yourself falling in love with someone, but you're not sure that it's really love? And what do you do when that person isn't over someone else? He says his heart skips a beat when he sees her vehicle, or a vehicle that looks like hers, or someone who reminds him of her, or when he gets a phone call or text...

what he doesn't know is that it happens to me when I get a call from him and hear his voice and when I spend time with him.

I fear the worst...I feel the impending loss and heartache over this.